Posts Tagged ‘goals’

Groups Are The Solution: Get on Track and Stay the Course

Monday, December 31st, 2012

If you really want a high and consistent level of success in the New Year, you need the support of a group. People are often surprised to learn that I have been a lifetime member of Weight Watchers for over 21 years. They comment that I don’t need to lose weight. They are even more shocked when I tell them that I still attend the weekly meetings. “Why do you need to do that?” they’ll often say. My response is a simple one – It’s exactly how I have kept my weight in check all these years! I thrive with the support, accountability and resources a group offers.

It’s really easy to get off track when you go it alone. Most diets or change strategies will work for awhile, but then rules start bending, a sense of rebellion can set in or worse yet, a feeling of apathy can take over. It’s the same way for life and business changes too. Without that support, the great things that you accomplish can quickly become un-done.

Two of my most beloved groups to assemble are the Winning at Waist Management and Awaken Your Creativity (Artist’s Way with EFT) groups that have been convening for over 7 years. The early groups were small and met face to face in the Cleveland area. Technology and my courage to use it has now allowed me to offer both groups as teleconferences that include live sessions, YouTube video, audio and email support. What’s exciting to me is that people get results either way. Social media has made this even more exciting. Our December 2012 Waist Management group had members from Japan, Singapore, Australia and Brazil!

Here are just a few of the comments from participants:

Betsy’s humor, compassion, and optimism helped me to stay the course. Her program was affordable and offered the structure and daily reminders I needed to stay on my weight reduction plan. I lost 4 pounds in 25 days and have kept that weight off during the holidays.

Betsy has the uncanny ability to put her finger right on the issue at hand. With her gentle and kind approach, you feel like you can conquer any problem no matter how big or how small.

I found the advice to be practical, down to earth and easy to follow. There was no eccentric eating plans or changes to my lifestyle.

Although Betsy was leading the group, she was going through it & participating in the same way everyone else was. As a participant it is always more comforting to me to know that Betsy really understands our concerns & has shared them. She really lives what she is teaching us.

I was very committed to this program because of the quality of Betsy’s work, sharing, suggestions and teaching tools that she used to help us achieve a better understanding of health and waist management.

You always do a great job being a facilitator. You are uplifting and fun with your classes and teleseminars.

Maybe you have big dreams for 2013? If that’s the case, I urge you to find a group who shares some aspect of your dream and join. Whether it is a business mastermind group, business networking, weight loss, writer’s group, fitness class or a support group for a common challenge, you have a much greater likelihood of real and long-term change. You will also find that it feels like it takes less effort too.

Need help finding a group? I’ll be starting several new group coaching opportunities in the New Year. If you are in the Cleveland area, you can learn about women’s networking, mastermind and holistic business groups meeting soon by joining my mailing list at www.theindigoconnection.com or by becoming my friend on Facebook. You’ll also be excited to learn that a live seminar will take place this Friday Jan. 4 at 7PM where I will offer EFT demonstrations, tips for success at a variety of goals and some special deals for new programs.

Friends from around the globe will be happy to know there are several teleseminars beginning in January 2013 as well. Realizing how powerful group energy can be, it’s something I will always offer. Private coaching has a place when privacy and focus is needed; however groups offer a chance to meet new like-minded friends, to work on shared goals, to share frustrations and to heal pain that we have in common. Groups witness each other in the process, often pointing out the subtle things that need to be seen. Groups are energy and when energy work is added to groups, results are breathtaking.

It would be my honor to have you as a member of one of my groups in 2013. As a professional speaker, I enjoy inspiring existing groups who can benefit from energized new ideas. Need more information? Send me an email at Betsy@theindigoconnection.com.

Change, Choices and Making Dreams Come True

Tuesday, December 27th, 2011

The New Year is a time when many of us decide things need to change. As you reflect on the year just passed, step onto the scale, pull on a tight pair of jeans or set goals for your career or business, it becomes obvious that doing what you’ve done in the past probably won’t result in the dreams you have for a better future. Change, nevertheless is the hardest thing for most of us to truly embrace. It requires paying attention, letting go of old habits, losing the comfort the past while stepping into new behaviors that do not yet feel normal.

Many of us go through a cycle of disappointment and re-commitment year after year as we find ourselves returning to a diet, fitness program or some other process of self-discipline that only reminds us that we have failed in some way.

I am just as guilty as anyone reading this when it comes to procrastination, slacking on my diet during the holidays and making excuses about my own actions. I especially find this happening when I am not involved in teaching the energy coaching principles I know work so well. I too have to wake up, set goals, admit my failures and force myself back on track on a very regular basis. My credibility as a leader, author and expert depends on me walking the walk when it comes to what I teach. Believe me when I say that there are days when I wish I had chosen a less visible occupation!

I have learned over the years that my clients, students and audiences enjoy when I share stories of my failures, goofs and frustrations. These are perhaps the best lessons I can teach. Change is a gift for those who dare to dream. Success after a struggle sure feels important, memorable and makes a great story too.

There are five key elements we must all keep in mind as we embrace the change process and take action:

1. Admit what needs to change, then love, forgive and accept yourself now. You are loveable as you are and once you can fully accept yourself in the present moment, you can more fully connect with what you might do next. For example, I have this pattern of not tracking my food intake and weight watchers points, generally stuffing myself silly with fatty, sugar-filled foods during the week between Christmas and New Years each year, even though it makes me feel horrible and guilty. I could choose to admit it today or wait until some point in the future when none of my clothes fit. Either way, my behavior and choices are my reality. I have clearly been reversed in my thinking and resisting what is most healthy for me. A better affirmation statement for today is:

“Even though I have not tracked my points and eaten way too much rich food lately, I completely love and accept myself and my body anyway.”

2. Choose how you would rather feel, do, be or act. Do you need to change your diet, keep track of a new statistic, write in your journal, get more sleep, make more sales calls or take a daily 30 minute walk? All of those things are choices. Making a clear and conscious choice is empowering and puts you in control. What kind of things will you choose to bring greater control to your situation? Sometimes just one small choice is all you need to act upon. Say it out loud to fully embrace the decision. You might also want to post your choices statement(s) where you can see them throughout your day.

“I choose to eat in a way that fuels my body, demonstrates my value of health and log my weight watchers points in my tracker so that I can look and feel my best.”

“I choose to reach out to at least 3 clients a day by phone.”

“I choose to start each day by drinking 16 ounces of water.”

“I choose to track my savings, expenses and net worth in an excel spreadsheet that is updated every month.”

3. Set realistic goals, apply the change you’ve chosen and ask for support from others. Change can be difficult at first. It takes 3 weeks or so before your change will become a habit. Go into the change process knowing that extra effort will be needed up front. Set short term goals that are realistic and achievable, remembering that a journey is composed of many small steps. Share your goals with someone you trust and who will support you. Better yet, join a group who will support you through the changes and choices you are pursuing.

4. Track and celebrate your successes. Success takes many forms. If you are pursuing a weight loss goal, you may find that there are times when the scale doesn’t tell the whole story. While paying attention to the obvious number on the scale, also notice how you look, feel, how your clothes fit and some pleasant medical test results that are clear reminders of success. In business you may not see sales dollars coming in immediately as you embark on a new marketing program, but you can track meetings scheduled, phone inquiries and referrals as indicators that are creating opportunities for the sale.

5. Share your success process. Eventually you will find that you have made a breakthrough and achieved what you set out to accomplish. Don’t stop there! Many people are struggling and could benefit from what you have learned. Why keep it to yourself? There may be a business opportunity, new product or service that can result from your success. Teaching or mentoring others is one of the best ways to ensure that you stay the course for the long haul while you also help others.

Congratulations on embracing change and taking this opportunity for a new start. I know all too well that change is a life-long process. My book, Energy Makeover – A Conscious Way to Stay Young, Have Fun and Get More Done is loaded with exercises to help you embrace positive changes with less effort. You can learn more at www.energymakeover4U.com

Work Buddies & Strategic Alliances

Monday, October 17th, 2011

There is strength and comfort in being part of a team, especially if you are a solopreneur, home-based business owner or virtual worker. I’ve noticed lately that everywhere I go, I am being reminded that teaming up with others for a common pursuit is a really good thing. Just 2 weeks ago I gained a “sound bite buddy” in a media training class so the two of us could practice material we’re developing for radio interviews. I also acquired a speaking accountability buddy to check in with each week to make sure we are accountable for assignments for professional development course we are both taking. Soon I plan a project teaming with other authors and businesses as a means to support the launch of my new book and an Amazon.com marketing campaign. In all three cases, having these connections should help me succeed AND will also promote the success of my buddies too.

I have to admit, I prefer referring to these alliance partners as buddies. I like them, enjoy working with them and want to help them succeed. We operate as equal partners and we maintain the freedom to step out if the partnership does not serve us. The energy we exchange is not dollars, but rather support, ideas, encouragement and contribution. We are stronger because we chose to work together.

Today my mastermind group met to discuss strategic partnerships. I was impressed to come away with even more ideas for the value they bring. Where in your life or business would a work buddy make sense? Below are 5 considerations to help you identify opportunities for informal partnership:

1. Testing and Feedback: This kind of buddy offers a safe, confidential place to test ideas, products, material and concepts and to generate constructive feedback. This partnership requires expertise, a non-competitive spirit and honesty.

2. Accountability: This buddy knows your priorities, goals and deadlines and checks in regularly to keep you on track. Regular meetings with this kind of buddy help you make commitments, get things checked off your list and also gives you someone to celebrate with.

3. Connections: This sort of buddy has lists of emails, friends, customers, suppliers and organizations. They can make introductions and see possible new links for you and your business, often before you even recognize them. This buddy helps you expand the reach of what you do so that you can expand outward with greater ease.

4. Synergy: When 1+1>2, that’s synergy. Both parties offer value and when teamed together offer the marketplace greater convenience, value, savings or innovation. This kind of partnership is a win-win for all involved when done well.

5. Shared Expertise: Teaming up with an expert can save huge amounts of time and aggravation. An example might be a successful business attorney partnering with an internet marketing expert. The marketing expert needs legal advice and the lawyer needs internet marketing ideas. Both benefit and move forward, even if money never changes hands.

There’s always room for a buddy in your business. Keep your eyes open for opportunities and invite partnerships that build success for both of you as a way to build your local economy.

10 Tips for Lasting Positive Change

Monday, January 17th, 2011

As a coach and a self-improvement junkie, January is a time I enjoy because there is so much attention and awareness around positive change. It is a new year and a fresh start. If you’re taking on diet or exercise with new ferocity, you are certainly not alone, and that feels great.

Just like the rest of you, I am establishing new business goals and committing to healthy patterns for 2011. Today I remind myself on the fundamentals. See if these help you focus as we begin this 3rd week of 2011.

10 Tips for Making Strong, Positive and Lasting Change
1. Clearly know the REASONS why you are choosing this change. What are the pleasant things that result in your life if you accomplish this goal?

2. Don’t go it alone. Join groups working on similar goals (like Weight Watcher’s, a fitness class, or a business mastermind group).

3. Seek help from coaches or other experts who’ve been successful at what you want to do. You’ll save time, avoid set-backs and be more confident venturing into new territory.

4. Be accountable - share your goals with someone and offer to support them with their goals too. Touch base regularly for consistent support, encouragement and celebration.

5. Pay attention to details. Sometimes just one small adjustment brings the greatest results. For example, switching to a new alkaline drinking water system instead of drinking regular filtered water really helped my digestion and supported losing inches from my waistline last year. It was such a nice surprise and so easy!

6. Be open to new resources, ideas, products and services. If I had been closed minded, I might have missed the amazing self-healing power of EFT meridian tapping and never gotten into the amazing work I do now. I also might have dismissed the benefits of alkaline water and making YouTube videos. There are so many resources online, especially through social media. Are you engaging in this yet? Maybe it’s about time? You too could be just one resource from an amazing breakthrough.

7. Keep grounded. That means keeping in the present moment, fully connected to your body and the earth you stand on. It also means being practical, aware and connected to the natural world. Don’t get swept away by the flurry of electronics and other stuff trying to distract you from what is really important to your purpose.

8. Be patient and forgive yourself for set-backs. It takes 3 weeks or more for a new habit to become fully established. Those first weeks are the toughest because you are working on something that is not yet natural and you don’t have much to show for it. It is easy to mess up and need to get back on track. Be gentle on yourself during this time of adjustment. Suddenly there will be a day when you and others really notice what you’ve been working on. People will offer compliments, your clothing will be more comfortable, your bank statement will be filling with deposits or your new client inquiries will be up substantially. It doesn’t happen overnight. Have faith that what you desire is coming, your efforts are making a difference and be peaceful in the meantime.

9. Keep track of your progress. Whether it means by measuring tape, bathroom scale, net revenues, daily food tracker or number of website hits, keeping track helps you see your results over time and also allows fine-tuning along the way. By simply focusing attention on something, you help propel the results you desire. Energy flows where attention (and intention) goes.

10. Celebrate! Plan stops along the way to acknowledge your journey of good fortune. Find ways to reward yourself for your accomplishments. Make sure they are healthy, really fun and also keep you moving even further. Pause to really appreciate what you have created and enjoy that feeling. A few great ways to appreciate yourself might include purchasing a Galvanic Spa for weekly natural face-lift treatments, scheduling a massage, taking a class, going out to dinner, scheduling a getaway with your spouse or buying a great new outfit to upgrade your image. Find something that fills your heart with joy and JUST DO IT.

Patience and Progress

Monday, August 16th, 2010

Last week’s post was about surrendering and also taking action to get control of my “middle aged middle”. I joined Weight Watchers, began more diligently practicing good habits, upped my exercise, and carefully tracked my daily food intake and points.

During my first week I lost 1.8 pounds and 1/2 inch from my waist, and was quite happy with myself. My biggest realization was that I easily overeat when I don’t keep track, but once I keep track, I’m quite satisfied staying within my healthy eating plan. There’s enough flexibility within Weight Watchers for treats and a few dinners out without breaking with the program.

My second week wasn’t so great. Although I stayed within my point ranges, exercised and behaved myself, on the scale I gained 0.2 pounds and my waistline stayed the same. How could this be? Maybe it’s just a hormone flux or going to weigh in at 5:30 instead of my regular morning time. It could be many things, but it seemed so wrong because I had worked at losing.

There’s a common phrase in coaching that says “There is never failure, only feedback.” It reminds me that this is a journey that will take many weeks and be one where there may be setbacks along the way.

I have eaten a healthier, more balanced diet the past 3 weeks and I feel really well. My workouts have been easier and my knee is handling higher intensity activity well. That is progress that doesn’t show up on the scale or the tape measure, but it is nevertheless very real.

As you work on shaving inches off your middle, remember that the rewards may come in other forms along the way. Pay attention, be patient and track progress in forms other than weight or measurements, so that there’s always the feedback you need to keep moving and progressing toward your goal.

I’ll be witnessed on the scale again in the morning and look forward to sharing progress and feedback!

Setting Goals and Resolutions Success in the New Year

Monday, December 28th, 2009

We gathered for a year-end coaching call on December 28 to discuss the process of balanced goal setting. You’ll also see how much I emphasize the importance of FUN in goal setting. The call includes:

1. A fun party game you can use to loosen up stuffy adults
2. The value of a year-end wrap-up before moving into your new year.
3. Three things you must incorporate to assure more success with your goals
4. A heart massage exercise to help you feel more focussed about moving into 2010.

Here’s the audio if you missed the call:

The “Why” Within the Plan

Monday, December 28th, 2009

The approach of January 1 coaxes us to think about new beginnings, resolutions, promises and goals. As I prepare to lead a discussion about resolutions and goals tonight, I am reminded that my best efforts toward my own changes have come when I am clear about THE REASON change really matters. It is the WHY within the plan that reflects what I love and what I value deep inside. It is the WHY that will bring me closer to the successful change I dream of.

Allow me to share some recent examples from my own life. Each quarter, I set 2 dozen life and business goals as part of my commitment to life balance and integrity in my work as a coach. Some are easier than others, but each and every one has a WHY attached to it.

Goal Example #1:
Maintain a waist measurement of less than or equal to 27 inches

Why: a measure of fitness, health and stress management that helps me look good and fit comfortably into my clothes.

Status: Today’s measurement was 27.5 inches. I am resuming my exercise and dietary routines today in hope that the excess holiday pudge will be gone by Friday! The temptation of holiday goodies are always going to be a challenge, but the why is really more important to me. Wondering if I should go for <=26 inches in the new year? Will need to consider the why attached to that inch of difference.

Goal Example #2:
Use my intuitive kinesthetic energy awareness to help others find their truth. Be bolder about it, without apology.

Why:
This is honoring and being who I am, owning my talents and rising above my fears.

Status: A work in progress. I am using and trusting my perceptions more often in private client work and documenting events in my journal. I could do more in group & public work. There is still fear of judgement and being labeled as a “woo woo” that’s holding me back. The why reminds me to be true to myself.

Goal Example #3
Blog or publish an article weekly

Why:
Written expression helps the rest of the world understand where I am coming from and the value I offer. Regularly publishing something develops my capabilities and outreach as an expert and professional writer.

Status: Regular writing has occured as planned. I have an agent interested in one of my book proposals and others may still emerge. I have committed to blogging/writing regularly and enjoy the process. The feedback from readers has been gratifying.

Hopefully these examples give you a sense for how you can enhance your goal-setting by going deeper into your WHY. If you would like a copy of my balanced goal-setting form to help you get your 2010 off to a great start, send an email to betsy@theindigoconnection.com and I will add you to my list for distribution.

I wish you a wonderful year filled with clarity, value and purpose. It’s all about the WHY!

Goals for Deliberate Balance

Wednesday, September 2nd, 2009

“Creativity requires the courage to let go of certainties.”
-Erich Fromm

There’s something scary about setting goals. They represent exciting possibilities, but also represent an opportunity for failure if our goals go unmet. Often there may also a part of us that is afraid we will succeed. It’s easy to get comfortable with our present situation, even if it is unpleasant when the other side is “unknown”.

There are ways to stack the deck toward less fear and greater accomplishment when setting goals. Here’s the process I am using today as I generate my own goals for the next planning period:

1. Know what you want. Be specific, practical and time –oriented Spend some time examining your values. What do you want to be, own, do, feel, learn and earn? Who do you want to spend time with and where would you like to go? What are goals that you accomplish regularly and want to keep as part of your ongoing plan? I like a 90 day planning cycle because that is also a business quarter and easy to track. You may prefer 30 or 60 days and that’s fine too. Before deciding your goals, take a look at what is already on the calendar and the commitments you already have in the coming weeks. What goals make sense for you to set for yourself? What resources will you need? Identify any time-planning roadblocks that may thwart your success too. Better to be prepared than blindsided so you can plan around the bumps.

2. Schedule your deadlines for balance and so they don’t all hit at once. Realize that some goals will be easily accomplished and some will be ongoing. Set each completion date deliberately in a way that facilitates success and helps you balance the other things going on in your life. For example, you may have a huge project due the last week of the month. To maintain your strength during this stressful time, you might also set a goal of attending a yoga class, or getting to the gym that same week.

3. Set plenty of goals for more opportunities to win My planning process sets 3 goals in each of 8 key areas 1. Business/Career 2. Relationships 3. Financial/Money 4. Fun 5. Personal 6. Health & Fitness 7. Contribution and 8. Spirituality. By addressing the totality of your life, odds are you’ll succeed even if some goals are not accomplished. You’ll also find your life will be in better balance overall. It’s a numbers game, so set plenty of goals knowing you are a winner even if you don’t hit 100%.

4. Know the “why” behind your goals and share your excitement Don’t just write down your goals, also write down the reason they are there so you can truly feel the positive emotions around them. Get excited about your goals, then find a positive person (or a group) who believes in you and who would also like some support for their own goals. Spend some time sharing your goals, set up calls or meetings to touch base at regular intervals and offer encouragement. Allow this safe support system to help you celebrate your success and move you further toward your dreams.

5. Allow room for new goals as life shifts Sometimes there is a bigger plan at work for us, and we may not anticipate all that can and will happen in our planning period. Maintain a flexible attitude. A crisis or emergency may arise. For example, someone in your family might get sick and need you to care for them. Rather than throwing out all the goals, adjust your plan to accommodate the situation and to also ensure that your life stays in balance. You’ve heard “life happens” – so forgive yourself before it happens and know you have the freedom to change course.

6. Post Your Goals as a Visual Reminder Display your goals where you can see them – ideally in your regular workspace. If you share a space or don’t feel supported by others who may see them, then tuck them away where you have easy regular access. Take time to look at them daily. As you complete goals, use a colored highlighter to cross off your accomplishments so you have a visual reminder of your success. Save your goal sheets so that you can fully appreciate all that you have accomplished at year end.

7. Enjoy the Reward of Celebration! You’ve worked hard. Make sure you have built in a little time to celebrate your accomplishments. In case you didn’t notice, that’s what the FUN category is all about. Choose healthy and meaningful ways to acknowledge your growth. Celebrate with people who care about you and have helped you reach your goals. Take a little time to recharge and reflect too. What have you learned? How have you grown? What would you do differently? Take note and share your wisdom to help others.

I wish you success in your planning process. I hope you find joy in the process too. If anyone needs support setting goals and finding clarity, feel free to contact me. I enjoy helping others see the value they bring to the world and the possibilities the future holds for them. You’ll be celebrating before you know it.

100 Fun Things You Could Try for June 2009

Monday, June 15th, 2009

Last week I spoke to a group about the many benefits that come through having fun.  I referred to documented studies that show laughter (a direct result of fun) boosts the immune system.  I also noted that businesses incorporating fun into the workday enjoy higher productivity, fewer sick days, lower turnover and a boost to creativity and morale.  In this economy, we need fun more than ever.

As a coach, I have always strongly encouraged my clients to incorporate fun  into their specific plans and goals.  I practice what I preach.  Leading the Artists Way groups over the past 3 years has also helped me see the value of adding more fun into life through regular “artists dates”.

I still get a few blank stares from people who don’t have a clue how to have fun.  The good news is that I have a ton of fun ideas on hand that work for just about anybody,  no matter what time of the year it may be.

Today I challenged myself to come up with 100 fun ideas for June 2009.  Maybe you can find something on this list to inspire you.  My wish is that you also think of a few things that are missing, but certainly fun for you.

Challenge yourself to build more fun into your routines.  Today is a great day to get started.

1. Eat outdoors

2. Go barefoot

3. Plant a flower

4. Blow bubbles

5. Make sidewalk art with chalk

6. Run through a sprinkler

7. Wear a pony tail

8. Take a walk

9. Jog with a dog

10. Admire someone’s garden

11. Visit a garden center

12. Grow fresh herbs

13. Gather and arrange flowers

14. Grow a tomato plant

15. Roll down a grassy hill

16. Eat fresh strawberries

17. Listen to the breeze

18. Watch a birdfeeder

19. Sing while mowing the grass

20. Paint your toenails

21. Sit in a sunny place

22. Play hopscotch

23. Go to an afternoon matinee

24. Get an ice cream cone

25. Attend a street festival

26. Pack a picnic

27. Grill something

28. Make a pretty salad

29. Visit a farmers market and talk to a farmer

30. Skip instead of walk – see if anyone notices

31. Wear a funny hat

32. Play a favorite song on a Kazoo

33. Pick your own fruit at a farm

34. Take a kid to the zoo

35. Listen to the birds

36. Sit by a fan

37. Float in the water

38. Eat watermelon outside – spit the seeds as far as you can

39. Give a dog a bath

40. Let a wet dog shake all over you

41. Touch live plants

42. Read near a body of water

43. Pull some weeds

44. Wear bright colors and a tropical lei

45. Dry laundry outside

46. Enjoy a coffee break outdoors

47. Take silly photos – post on Facebook

48. Splash somebody (nicely of course)

49. Ride a bike

50. Put fruit slices in your water glass

51. Play fetch with a dog

52. Improve your game of Frisbee

53. Set up a miniature golf date

54. Make fresh lemonade

55. Open a lemonade stand

56. Eat a pop-sickle

57. Gaze at the stars

58. Catch lightening bugs

59. Help someone spread mulch

60. Listen to music

61. Smell flowers

62. Water some plants

63. Visit a new patio

64. Research local patio dining options

65. Make dinner reservations for patio dining

66. Admire a bird nest

67. Blow dandylion fluff

68. Wash your car and wax to a shine

69. Make a bonfire

70. Sit by a lake

71. Walk by a river

72. Go fishing

73. Feed ducks

74. Make a slushy frozen drink

75. Call someone you had fun with as a kid

76. Get a horn for your bike

77. Wear a sundress or Bermuda shorts

78. Stop at a garage sale

79. Send yourself a fun postcard

80. Notice all the beauty around you

81. Restore a surface with new paint

82. Explore a new part of your local park system

83. Press flowers and leaves in the Phone Book

84. Laugh out loud

85. Smile and say hi to strangers

86. Smile and say hi to animals you see

87. Listen to your 5 all-time favorite songs

88. Clean something until it shines

89. Dance like nobody’s watching

90. Blow bubbles with a drinking straw

91. Hunt for frogs and tadpoles

92. Catch a dragonfly. Observe and release

93. Jump rope

94. Climb a tree

95. Sit under a tree

96. Swing on a swing

97. Breathe Deeply, sigh loudly

98. Notice your favorite colors in nature. Give them interesting names

99. Make a stash of water balloons

100. Surprise someone with a water balloon.