Archive for September, 2010

A Steady Melt

Friday, September 24th, 2010

Imagine that scene in The Wizard of Oz where Dorothy tosses the water on the witch, and then she just shrivels and melts away. That is what is happening to my alien belly bump, and actually to other parts of me too. After 8 weeks of discipline, increased awareness about eating, challenged my beleifs and attended meetings with others working on healthier habits the progress continues. I am down 7 pounds. I keep learning more tips to keep things going in the right direction. They will help you too

1. Healthy weight loss is 1/2 – 1 pound per week.
That doesn’t seem like much, but it amounts to a sustainable situation that the body enjoys. Once the body knows it is in a safe pattern, the metabolic burn kicks in.

2. Results show up off the scale
As much as we want results in all areas, sometimes we get more when we pay attention to what happens off the scale. A seven pound loss is noticeable. People who haven’t seem me in awhile are noticing and commenting. My waist is 1.75 inches smaller and my clothes are comfortably loose again. You may notice other things like confidence, increased energy, easier workouts, calmer digestion or better sleep. These are all elements of success, so don’t miss them.

3. Don’t be Afraid to Ask for Help
There are many resources and good people to support you through the journey. Don’t go it alone. Get an exercise buddy, find a friend who is also working to shed a few pounds, join a support group or join Weight Watchers. Sometimes we need to ask people in our household to help us stick to our goals too. The truth is – when you ask someone else to help you, you make that person feel respected and powerful. Why not make somebody’s day!

Action Time:
Pick one action to implement this week toward adopting a Waist Management strategy (see past blogs for inspiration!).

Find at least one resource to help you stick to this action. This can be a person or a group.

Journal about your feelings and keep track of how this action is changing your life in good ways – both on and off the scale.

Don’t forget – I’m here to help you too. Soon I will be introducing a self-study program for Waist Management which will give you daily support, EFT treatment sequences, audios and videos to stay on track with good habits before the holidays are upon us. Join my mailing list at www.theindigoconnection.com if you’d like to know when this service becomes available.

Progress – The Shrinking Alien!

Friday, September 10th, 2010

On August 3, 2010 I posted a blog titled “Taming the Alien” regarding my own battle with the mid-life belly bulge and recommendations for waistline reduction. I’m pleased to say that I have been practicing everything I suggested in that article, and it’s working! I have lost 1.25 inches from my waist, dropped 5 pounds and feel exceptionally well. You can do it too.

I must warn you however, you won’t get results like mine unless you take responsibility and make a change or two in how you conduct your daily life.

Each person must decide their own path to change. Some people do well with sudden radical changes, while others need baby steps. The key is finding changes you can live with in the long term so that they become automatic habits.

Below are some of the changes that have helped me get control of my middle:

1. I found accountability and group support in this process by attending weekly Weight Watchers meetings and by leading a Waist Management with EFT class for a group of fellow business networking friends. My sister also joined Weight Watchers which allows me to cheer her progress each week too. Good coaches know how significant that accountability can be. It is important to have witnesses and leaders to share resources and keep you uplifted through the rough spots.

2. Structure I am writing down what I eat and sticking to the guidelines set by Weight Watchers for someone my age and height. I also journal my feelings and treat myself with EFT tapping when I encounter stress or have a food craving.

3. I read food labels before buying anything and now choose things high in fiber, low in calories and low in fat. I am also consciously not eating foods that contain artificial sweeteners or high fructose corn syrup.

4. No sugar in my coffee. This may seem like a small thing, but it was keeping my body addicted to sugar. I only drink 1-2 cups per day, but when I do, I add a sprinkle of cinnamon instead.

5. Daily Exercise to manage stress and keep my body feeling good. I have been working out every single day for 30-60 minutes. Most days it is aerobics or running. At the very least, it is brisk walking. There are no days off and that is a good plan to work toward.

My big Ah-Hah came in realizing that this wasn’t as hard as I had been telling myself this would be. I have said NO to big portions, fatty/sweet treats and foods I might have ordered while dining out in the past. Once I see the calories or read a label, it usually doesn’t feel worth it because I know of a satisfying food that will work instead. I have said YES to more vegetables, sea food, fresh fruit, fat free yogurt and whole grains. I FEEL GREAT and I don’t feel deprived. You can do this too.

Figure out what you can do NOW and begin. I’m here to coach those who want more support and resources. Check out the Winning at Waist Management link on my calendar of events and plan to join me for the free class on Sept. 15 at 12:30 PM EST. See the Calendar of Events at www.theindigoconnection.com to get the details. Soon your “alien” will be shrinking too!