Archive for June, 2010

Ask and Receive (Repeat Often)

Sunday, June 27th, 2010

Lately I have been feeling a lot like a beggar. You see, I went and entered a contest which required me to ask my friends, family, clients, associates and total strangers to vote for my book, Energy Makeover. Asking takes effort. Asking feels weak. Asking means I’m nothing without their help. Asking is humbling. I do it anyway, as hard as it is, because I know that asking is necessary to take a stand for what I am called to do.

Excuse me a second so I can take a moment to ask again – You see, the contest ends at Midnight on Monday June 28!

Will you help me?

Please vote for my book at http://www.nexttopauthor.com/profile.cfm?aid=799

I have also been doing a whole lot of receiving lately simply because I asked for help. Whether or not I make it as one of the 25 lucky authors who advance to Round 3 in the Next Top Author Contest, my heart has been warmed and my confidence stroked by hundreds of friends who wrote, called, texted and posted on my Facebook wall. When I asked for help, they responded and they did so with warmth and affection. Nobody threatened me, got mad or told me I was dumb. Why was I expecting that might happen? It does make me wonder if irrational thoughts and fears get in the way of my best experiences in other areas of life.

Due to this lesson in asking and receiving, I will choose to repeat both more often. I will do it anyway, even when I’m scared. Repeating a process that works is the real progress.

In summary, the lesson today is:

Asking takes effort. The return on the effort is enormous

Asking feels weak, but the weakness is temporary. Receiving soon restores the power and balance

Asking means I’m nothing without their help. Life is richest only through connection and service to others

Asking is humbling. I choose to remain humble

Whether I advance in the contest or not, my book will be published, people know what it’s about and they are excited about reading it when it becomes available. I call that a winner and I’m sticking with that!

Having More Fun in Your Business

Tuesday, June 15th, 2010

On Monday June 14, I had the opportunity to be interviewed by Diane Helbig, host of Accelerate Your Business Growth Radio. Our topic was having more fun while running a business. You can listen to a recording of the show at http://www.blogtalkradio.com/dhelbig/2010/06/14/having-more-fun-in-your-business

If you don’t have an hour to listen to the whole show, allow me to quickly share 6 key points that can help anyone begin to have more fun AND make more money as they align themselves in a business that reflects who they really are.

1. Know Thyself
Take time to get clear about who you are and what you love, both at work and outside of work. Think about your very best days on the job and why you enjoyed them so much. Take the test at www.superherotraining.com and see what comes up as your top 2 or 3 subject areas. Are these part of your business? Finally, think like a child and see if you can remember what made you happiest at the age of 8. Are those sources of joy still somehow connected to what you do now? The more you know what brings you happiness, the more you can attract it into your present model of fun.

When I took the superhero training test 4 years ago, I discovered “Nature” was my #1 category and it was nowhere in my business. Since that time, I have integrated nature into my work liberally by adding outdoor events, holding retreats at Lake Erie and becoming a facilitator for the TPW Maui Passage. By doing so, I have created so much more joy in my life.

2. Create Your Personal Definition of Fun
Fun is really up to you! Don’t limit yourself to what others say. Uncover your limiting beliefs about fun and test them. Could they change to allow you to enjoy work a bit more. I personally have transitioned from corporate employee to entrepreneur over the past decade. The stuffy nature of my previous jobs bled into my current situation and it really wasn’t me. I have gradually modified my definition of fun and professionalism, including my dress to be more casual and comfortable. This re-definition has served me well and is more authentic to my truth.

3. Narrow Your Focus to the “Fun Part”
Sometimes we struggle because we are working with the wrong partners or serving the wrong clients. Take a moment to become aware of you very best customers and how you are serving them. List the traits you appreciate about them and also the needs they hold in common. What might you do to attract more of this type of client? Simply getting more clear about your perfect client profile will create an energy field that invites them in.

4. Treat Yourself to Time-Off
Time for rest, renewal and personal fun is necessary to have perspective in the bigger business world. We benefit by stepping away from the hectic pace of our business to reconnect with ourselves. Use this time away to write, become inspired, read or do mundane tasks. It is not wasted time, but rather time that allows you to see new opportunities and to build energy so that when you return to work, you will be effective and fully-present.

5. Decide what you can “let go of” or release in order to have more fun and enjoyment.
Often you need to say “NO” to a few things in order to create space for true happiness. Examine those heaviest parts of your life or those things that seem to cause ongoing angst. Could something heal, stop, be released?
Some things you might consider releasing include:
Clutter
Debt
Employee/Partner problems
Customer disputes
Anger

6. Put something fun into every day
As you know yourself, you will benefit on even the busiest day by taking small steps for more fun. You might subscribe to funny videos, spend time in nature, add something enjoyable to your fitness routine or read a chapter of a fiction book purely for pleasure. As I said before, this is up to YOU.

Find something FUN and just do it!

The Gift of Shift

Friday, June 11th, 2010

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Didn’t feel like writing today, so I made this little video instead. If you look closely, you’ll see my cat Sig sneak in at the end. I decided not to edit her out, since so many of my friends love her.